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# Traumatic Narcissism (Relational Perspectives Book Series) 1st Edition

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Very Clarifying
  

*by L***R on Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2023*

If you come from a family where there are narcissistic parents, this book is very clarifying about the ways children respond and accommodate their needs, leaving lasting scars.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    A Rare Find and Must Read for  All psychotherapists
  

*by M***. on Reviewed in the United States on October 9, 2020*

In my 40 years as a practicing psychologist, I have not come across a professional book that has had as much impact on the breadth of my understanding of the dynamics of narcissism, on the  depth of my relational work with clients suffering from having experienced traumatizing narcissism at the hands of those upon whom they depended on for care, and on the clients themselves to whom I gave the book at some point in the course of treatment.  With eloquence, and in language that is meaningful to professionals, and accessible to the layperson who might be in search of greater understanding of their suffering, Daniel Shaw clearly, and empathically lays out the intergenerational transmission of narcissism and its devastating effects on those who have experienced it in various relational contexts.  He brings in knowledge and theory from many other current experts on narcissism and dissociation, such as Kalsched, Howell  and Bromberg,  and going back historically, Winnicott, Fairbairn, and the early psychoanalysts.  He integrates their contributions into his own elegant formulations, and brings in examples from literature and theatre to illustrate some of his ideas.  Also included are illuminating, and deeply moving case examples from his own clinical practice.  Clients of mine who have read the book consistently describe being “seen” by Shaw in an unprecedented way, often bringing me excerpts that are particularly touching to them.  What an enormous gift to those who have experienced such suffering in life. The understanding patients receive from Shaw’s attuned and caring descriptions of what have been the core dilemmas that have shaped their adaptations to developmental adversity throughout their lives, has enhanced their therapeutic process significantly Daniel Shaw is a gifted writer and theoretician, as well as an extraordinarily compassionate and attuned human being. His emphasis on the necessity for the analyst to fully engage from an intersubjective perspective with clients, showing up with authenticity and appropriate transparency in the analytic process is woven throughout the book, and has become a guiding light to me in my own work. I have given Shaw’s book to numerous colleagues who share my enthusiasm and it has become a centerpiece in the Master’s level curriculum of professional trainings I collaborate in teaching.  I am grateful beyond words for his contribution, and look forward to his further publications.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Excellent, well-written, worthwhile read!
  

*by K***T on Reviewed in the United States on July 29, 2016*

I purchased this book after hearing the author speak at a conference, and to contribute to my studies of abusive churches/cults.  Daniel Shaw present two ideas that I found particularly powerful and enlightening in this book.1. There is a type of narcissist rightly called a "traumatizing narcissist"; one who transfers his/her shame/inadequacy/fear, etc., out of himself/herself, and onto those whom he/she relates to. Shaw's perspective is primarily shaped through his observations as a psychoanalyst, but readily applies to the more severe instances of pastoral/spiritual abuse found in some churches. The book contributed greatly to my studies of false teachers/false prophets in Christian churches.2. A worthy goal in people-helping is to seek a healthy expression of what Shaw terms "analytic love." This is a relationship goal in which both the client and the analyst relate as equals in a mutually respectful relationship marked by consideration, kindness, empathy, and equality. Shaw's primary focus is to address and criticize the coldness of a professional relationship in the counseling environment, in which the counseled is de facto "under" the care and authority of the counselor. The counselor (in this defective system) may express superiority, lack of love/concern, etc., in any number of subtle (and not so subtle) ways, perpetuating the distance between the "helper" and the one being helped. In doing so, the counselor often creates the same conditions of which the client/patient is seeking to recover from: an absence of love and protection from care-givers.I did not expect to find what is (to me) such a clear indictment of the tendency to relate as an authority figure in pastoral counseling, in such a way that creates distance between the member and the pastor, and prohibits a genuine, relational, therapeutic engagement that best expresses the Christian goal of edification and agape love. While this is not a Christian book, and the author's beliefs regarding faith are not revealed--it is a clear and insightful (though unintended) presentation of a healthy, Christ-like model of pastoral care. Highly recommended.

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