Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right and Avoiding Who's Wrong

I've purchased this book many times to give away to men & women friends who are good people looking for a compatible life partner, yet repeatedly choose ill-advised significant others. This book will tell you WHY you keep choosing the wrong people (it's your formative years); how to know YOURSELF what you need & want in a partner, and clues about why people act in ways that doom their relationships & once knowing WHY, can change their self-sabotaging behavior. It's a VERY USEFUL BOOK! I recommend it for everyone, even those in a happy marriage or committed relationship. Good to read even if you're on your way out of a crappy marriage, or even just taking a break from dating/seeking.

What an amazing book. This hardcover edition was published in 1992.Its timeless.I just bought a copy and I am impressed at what this book has to offer. This is the ideal book for men and women. This is the book you should start with to sort out your love life then get it right. This book explains how we get it wrong when looking for love.The author takes us through the various steps,in detail, to explain everything.Its very indepth. The book is divided up into 3 main sections then divided up into chapters.1st section:Understanding your love choices.1)Love is not enough.2)Why we chose the people we love.3)Falling in love for all the wrong reasons.4)the six biggest mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship.2nd:5)The ten types of relationships that wont work.6)Fatal flaws.7)compatibility time bombs.3rd:8)Six qualities to look for in a mate.9)Sexual chemistry:what turns you on and what doesnt.10)Compatibility:finding out who's right for you.11)Commitment:making and keeping one when its right,and letting go when its wrong.12)The adventure of love.I wish I'd bought this book years ago.Its that good.Most people who have had failed relationship will benefit from this book.The title sums it up accurately.It really is a must have book to make us see who is right for us and avoiding who's wrong for us. There are so many warning signs to look for.There are signs to look for to find the right ones.I highly recommend this book and the books by Neil Clark Warren. Falling in Love for All the Right Reasons: How to Find Your Soul Mate Date or Soul Mate?: How to Know if Someone is Worth Pursuing in Two Dates or Less

Purchased for my 22 year old grandson and his friends who go through painful breakups in large part because they select young ladies to date without understanding who they are first.I have purchased more than a dozen of these books for various friends and Co-workers going through a relationship crisis. Initially recommended to me, this book helps you to derive the deep seeded reasons you choose the partners you do and reasons why that person may or may not be the best person for you.I have seen women, crippled and paralyzed with the pain of a break-up, regain their strength and make a 180 degree turn in how they view the failed relationship, to the point they realize the shortcomings in that partner. Believe it or not, this remarkable book enabled them to gain the upper hand in the relationship break up and make better choices in the future.I highly recommend this book for anyone at any age because it enables you to take a journey of self discovery so you can make better choices in relationships.This is an easy read and a remarkable self discovery tool.

My therapist recommended this book for me. Overall, I thought it was extremely helpful!The author is part of the Boomer generation, and I'm a millennial, so to be honest, I was pretty wary of our generation gap going into this. She's also clearly religious/spiritual, straight, and monogamous; if you're not those things, you might prefer a book that's more catered to your experiences.As a bisexual atheist who has been in polyamorous relationships, I do think that there are insights in here that can be helpful to everyone. The "six biggest mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship," "ten types of relationships that won't work," and "six qualities to look for in a mate" sections are all spot on.This book includes several exercises, all of which I recommend doing. The single most helpful one was the compatibility exercise in Chapter 10.If you're a fan of self-help books, this is worth the money. The heteronormativity and insistence on monogamy bugged me, but the general good advice is too good to ignore.

Incredible book I think I read it in the early 90’s.Life changing! Recently purchased my grown daughter.Understand why you choose one mate over another the answers may surprise you and may define you, if you let it (good or bad)A book to keep and reread every now and then⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ a favourite author

Great concept with smooth ,easy writing to follow

Noch nie hat mir ein Buch die Augen do weit geöffnet wie dieses. Eine sehr wertvolle Lektüre für jeden Menschen, der eine Beziehung eingehen möchte.

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I wish I have read this book earlier! It was very helpful and insightful for me. highly recommended.

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