Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love

Side by Side, authored by well-respected biblical counselor Ed Welch, was written for Christians to identify skills necessary to help one another (v. 11) but who are not confident doing so (p. 13). We will never lack for struggling people who need someone to come along side them to comfort, guide, admonish, or demonstrate love. Welch’s very readable and practical book is both a reminder of the importance of reaching out to others and how to do so.Especially valuable are insights into how to engage meaningful conversations (pp. 79-99) and how to give helpful comments to those who are suffering (pp. 104-110). A most valuable chapter, one that should be read and pondered by all Christians, is entitled “Help Fellow Sinners” (pp. 141-152). Since sin is our biggest problem, and rescue from it is our greatest need (p. 43), it is of utmost importance that we come along side those who are facing temptation, have sinned, or have confessed sin (p. 141). Yet, sadly, most Christians stay on the sidelines even as they watch fellow believers slip into sinful lifestyles. They are afraid of getting involved because they expect unpleasant responses when they do. But Welch points out that refusal to step up and confront those in sin “contributes to safe relationships rather than loving ones” (p. 149). Love and the best interests of others are to be our guide, not fear or anger (p. 146). Welch offers specific ways we can come along side those dealing with sin (pp. 147-152).There are a few careless and out-of-context uses of Scripture (pp. 37, 47, 52, 61, 62, 125) but nothing of major significance. Overall, Side by Side is a simple, practical, and biblical treatise on friendship and ministering to those in need.

this book is wise. To those with life experience, fellow sufferers seeking joy, growth in Christ, I recommend this book as a beautiful practical focus on helping others, loving God.

Practical, real, useful and very understandable, like so much that Welch has written. Best of all, it comes from a right understanding of human nature; the one God gives us in scripture. Read it with a friend, maybe, and bless and deepen your friendship. Or try it with a wider group - homegroup at church, your family, or a group of fellow disciples. Well worth the time to read and apply diligently

Another gem from Welch, a great look at how we can spiritually care for each other in the church context.

I purchased this book for a book study at my church. I was so blessed, by the insights of this author. practical, step-by-step details about how to help people going through a crisis. As the Body of Christ, we ought to be coming alongside hurting and struggling people and supporting and encouraging them. This book gives practical, step-by-step details about how to help people going through a crisis.