Pure Plug 2.0 XL

It's interesting to observe the divide between what I would classify as the "consumer" or "amateur" level plugs and anal toys, on the one hand, and the more serious "pro" level items, on the other. The first category is far more prevalent on a site like Amazon. The more intense stuff (made by companies such as Oxballs and Square Peg) tends to be found on sites devoted to fetish and restraint play. I mention all this because, in the grand scheme of things, this plug is not nearly as large as the largest (insanely large) ones that are out there. It is, as I say, the right size for an intermediate user who has learned to relax and not panic while inserting this kind of thing.This plug is in the same size class as the Tantus Severin medium plug (which is available from Amazon, last I knew) and the larger Implicit Core plug (which must be ordered directly from its maker). Because of the significant difference in size between the bulb and the neck, it stays in place just fine. The external handle, which looks like an overgrown version of an old-fashioned bottle opener, is large enough to allow fairly easy manipulation of the plug. (That is one of my complaints about the next smaller unit, the Pure Plug "Large," which has a handle small enough that it is hard to grip in the fingers when inserting.)I tend to wear my plugs overnight while sleeping. I have a variety to choose from, and pick them depending on my mood. Some are smaller, some are larger. Some are fairly soft and squishy silicone, some are firmer silicone, and some are rigid glass or metal (such as this one). The main determining factor as to whether a plug is suitable for long-term (overnight) wear is the design of the external base. Some plugs -- such as the Tantus Severin plug mentioned above -- have a base with square corners, thin flange, and excessively sharp edges. The inserted part is fine, but the external base causes pinching and chafing, and after an hour or so they become uncomfortable because of the irritation outside. No good for overnight use. This nJoy plug is not too bad in this regard. The external part has some ridges on the handle that come to a peak that could be irritating, especially to a newcomer, but I have worn it overnight without difficulty.(As a side note -- The clear winner in external base comfort is the Implicit Core plugs, both sizes, which have a base that is thick and is the same width as the neck. A close second is the plugs from Oxballs and Square Peg that have fairly large and thick bases that distribute any pressure over such a large area that there is no irritation. It is important to pay attention to this when selecting a plug. Examples of good design are the "Egg" from Square Peg in extra-soft silicone, and the "Honcho" and "Ergo" models from Oxballs.)As others here have noted, the weight of this plug takes some getting used to when first wearing it. After a few times it becomes a non-issue, even when walking around. It does let you know that it's there.One of the benefits of a more rigid plug is that it facilitates passing gas, rather than having pressure build up. The soft and squishy plugs (at least ones of any significant size) create such a good internal seal that the pressure cannot easily escape. This issue will have varying significance for different people. For me it's an important consideration. :-)On the whole, I like this plug better than the nJoy "large" plug (the next size smaller) because this plug is easier to maneuver, and the base causes less irritation from the ridges on the external "bottle opener" handle. But, referring back to my comment that I like variety to fit my mood, it doesn't hurt to have some smaller plugs on hand for times when that's all you want. The smaller ones have the benefit that they tend to move around a bit more and "tickle" the nerves a bit, compared to larger plugs that make you feel full (which is a different but still valid sensation) but don't have that same tickle. So getting the "large" nJoy plug (smaller than this one) would not necessarily be a waste. But if you only get one, this might be a better choice in the long run.I have the impression that most people who are fans of butt plugs find that they have a need to challenge themselves with progressively bigger ones, because they get bored with the ones they have. I confess that I have some that are bigger than this, that I have not yet conquered. On the other hand, today I regularly use some that a while back I never thought I would be able to use. So it can be done.I agree with others who have said this one is not for beginners. For those people, I would recommend the Tantus Ryder (which I believe now has a redesigned and less irritating base) or the smaller Implicit Core plug which is basically the same size. In fact, I still like my Tantus Ryder plug a lot, some ten years after I first got it. Size is not everything!

I cannot express fully how happy I am with this plug. I had used some other, larger plugs previously, but they were too large for extended use, and especially to wear out. (My favorite would often pop out.) When this one came in, I of course tried it immediately and was in love. The weight, the coolness, and the smoothness of the stainless steel were just perfect! Stainless steel is compatible with all types of lubes. It can be boiled or placed in the dishwasher, and it holds temperatures, so if you (like me) enjoy hot or cold sensations in that area, you can't go wrong with stainless. It's completely body safe, as well. Glass has all those great properties too, but unlike glass, stainless doesn't shatter or chip. It's the perfect material for the job.As I worked up to longer periods of use, I decided to wear it out one day. After about 4 hours, it was starting to get uncomfortably dry. I only needed to finish my grocery shopping, and then I could get home and take care of it. As I was standing in the checkout lane, just as the woman behind me started chatting with me, it popped out! OMG, I thought... What do I do?! Thankfully I was wearing relatively tight underwear, and it didn't fall to the floor. (That would have been beyond embarrassing!) I was able to finagle it around a bit with my hand and get it pushed back in until I got to my car and could remove it.Moral of that story is... Well, there are two morals. First, always use silicone lube for extended wear if you are able to. Water-based lube is absorbed incredibly quickly by the rectum. (That's one of its primary jobs, after all.) And second, especially until you are used to extended wear outside the home, always carry a quart-size plastic bag and some antibacterial wipes when you go out. You never know when you will need to take it out, and it could get messy between lube and... other natural matter.I continue to use this plug as often as I am in the mood for plugging. I like to vary my ways of playing, so some days I like to use a plug, some days I use dildos, and some days I stay away from butt play entirely. One thing that I especially like about this one is the insertion. It feels so good when it's a bit cooler than the ambient and body temperature. Sliding it in, I like to hold it there for a good 20 to 30 seconds, moving it back and forth across the sphincter, as long as I am able to without clenching. It really helps to relax and loosen up -- and it's a great way to tease yourself or your partner as well! Then, when I am ready, I squeeze down and suck it in.The only thing I don't like about this plug is that it's not harness compatible. After that incident at the grocery, I wanted to get a harness to keep such events from happening again. But to do that, I'll have to find a different plug. Boo. On the flip side, the reason it isn't harness compatible is because of the pull ring which is absolutely fantastic for inserting and removing the plug, especially with lube-covered hands.Finally, another great thing about this you probably haven't considered: In a pinch, it can be used as a fruit juicer/citrus reamer. (I thought about including a photo. ;-))