Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation Paperback – November 8, 2015

After dragging my feet all year, I finally got to purchasing my copy of Enough to Make You Blush by Princess Kali. Princess Kali is a former dominatrix who published this book as a comprehensive guide for erotic humiliation in its various forms and how to incorporate that into your life whether it is through play scenes or just something to try in the bedroom with a romantic partner. As someone involved in kink for several years it is a great reference to inform you on how to negotiate boundaries and safety plans with a play partner to ensure both of you are protected in the case of unintended harm or crises during a scene. I also like how she breaks down different forms of humiliation, with embarrassment being on the lighter side of the spectrum while degradation is on the more extreme side.What I did want to highlight for the embarrassment lovers are the chapters she dedicates to nudity. I'm currently working on another Immodest Collection anthology and hit a wall recently with one story. Enough to Make You Blush breaks down all the ways you can incorporate nudity with humiliation and dives into the psychological elements, such as the difference between the presence or absence of an audience with nudity as well as the power dynamics when someone nude is paired with someone who is clothed. When you rope (no pun intended) this in with her other chapters on humiliation such as verbal play, teasing, financial domination, or even chastity play, this book is an excellent source for different forms of embarrassing situations to help you think outside the box.Despite talking about shame and embarrassment, this book does a great job of normalizing erotic humiliation as a kink. It does not act as a gatekeeper for what is and is not acceptable and contains personal accounts from other kinksters' experiences with erotic humiliation. I know personally for me when I identified "embarrassed nude females" as a kink I did struggle with it as I felt like I was twisted or abnormal in some way. I also wanted to know what it was about this kink that clicked for me. Most of the introspection and processing was done on my own, but I would have loved this book had it been around because I needed to hear that I'm not the only one who finds erotic humiliation sexy. I've recently had followers talk with me about their interest in exploring embarrassment and have asked me where they could find more information. Unfortunately there isn't much out there beyond deviant art and a few specific forums. Enough to Make You Blush is a much needed blessing and while it doesn't specifically cover "embarrassed nude females," it is still a key text that you should check out as you explore your own relationship with erotic embarrassment.

Amazing read! Both my husband and I are into erotic humiliation and this book is full of great ideas that range from fairly minor embarrassment to total degradation. I also really appreciated the practical emphasis on safety, negotiation, and consent. An extremely useful manual for anyone looking to explore erotic humiliation further. Plus the tone of the writing is warm, fun, and conversational.

From what I’ve skimmed through this seems like a pretty decent book. Have read others that were not good at all on similar topics. This one seems to go into a lot of the what and why and suggests a few hows to work with it. These are typically hard subjects as everyone’s preference is different, but this one isn’t too specific nor too vague which typically renders the book unusable to most readers.

Yesterday, I finished reading Princess Kali's book "Enough to Make You Blush." I have to say that while it's ostensibly about erotic humiliation, it covers far more than that.Most books on kink focus on tangible skills like tying knots or how to spank someone. That's good stuff, but those guides almost always leave out any info about the psychological side of BDSM. This book will give you lots of tips for how to get inside someone's head to heighten desire, arousal, and pleasure. There's also plenty of useful tools for managing emotional safety and how to negotiate these aspects of a scene.If you're interested in kink or if it's something you do, I highly recommend this book. It doesn't matter if you're into erotic humiliation or not. There's something here for you.

If you're very experienced then this probably isn't the book for you. Much of what is in this book will have already been done by someone in the lifestyle for a while. However, if you're like my wife and me and new to this or just want to expand your horizons into it then this book is great. Lots of great ideas and tips for every ideas she introduces.

This is pretty thorough and a frank discussion about getting to know your partner as he or she get to introduce you to yourself.Desire is the first ingredient in consent, while consensual must be the foundation to separate dominant and submissive. Once separated they become one, a gestalt win over living together alone.

I am not interested in Erotic Humiliation. However, I think it it's good practice to be exposed to everything. This book was an excellent introduction into the subject matter. I enjoyed the simplicity of how topics were described as well as the excerpts from others, and the analogies to help make topics stick. Would definitely recommend this book.

What an excellent book written by an excellent Woman! Enough to make you blush is a good read for both doms and subs.  Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation  In this book Princess Kali makes everyone feel comfortable and ok about enjoying erotic humiliation as a part of BDSM play. No, it doesn't make you an evil person just because you enjoy humiliating others consensually, and no it doesn't make you a weak loser just because you enjoy being humiliated during erotic play. We are nothing, but free spirits trying to explore human experiences and as long as there is a clear consent, two individuals are free to engage in humiliation play if it makes both parties happy! Thank you Princess Kali for taking the time to publish this excellent book and share your experiences with the World!

Such a good read!

Fantastic book!Easy to manage, in depth explanations about the psychology of kink and humiliation and how to negotiate in a respectful and healthy manner. There are also explicit ideas and techniques that are spelled out for newbies, which is invaluable.You’ll finish this book with ideas about what you want to do, and a solid understanding of why you’re doing it. An essential read from someone who knows what they’re talking about!

There are many different insights to the topic and it's so far the only book on that topic I could find. It covers many aspects of Humiliation, there should be something in it for everyone interested in that topic. There are different comments and opinions from other people between the chapters. At first, I was skeptical about that, but they gave a real good inspiration sometimes and brought different lifestyles and opinions up. As a non native English speaker I understood the book perfectly well, so it was not written too complicated. I really enjoyed it!

A great book i gave it as a birthday gift to my mum.She really connected with the material and it helped her and my dad to strengthen their bond.

If you are a complete novice or pro in this lifestyle this is an absolute must read. Fascinating and fun. I want to read it again.