- Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her): A Guide For Your Journey Through The Transformational Fires Of Love & Intimacy
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Most men are clueless when it comes to intimacy. Truth is, many women don’t know much better. That was Bryan’s story – one broken relationship after the next. Finally, at 36, in the midst of yet another agonizing breakup, Bryan had a painful epiphany: he had no idea what women actually wanted from him. Despite earning a Masters Degree in Human Relations and serving as a Captain in the U.S. Air Force, no one had ever taught him the essential skills for creating a fulfilling intimacy that endures. Bryan vowed to stop sucking at love, and thus began his transformative growth journey through the realms of love, sex, and relationship. What started as a personal exploration exploded into a viral blog that sparked a movement, attracting millions of readers worldwide. Now, Bryan invites both men and women to join him on an empowering adventure through this anthology of teaching stories, revelatory insights, and simple practical tools for creating thriving relationships . Bryan’s wisdom garnered from both personal experience and thousands of hours coaching men, women, and couples for over a decade unveils for you the very secrets (that should never be secrets!) to flourishing in love and connection. "Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)" is not just a book; it's a universal guide for anyone seeking to enhance their intimate relationship skills and cultivate deeper connection with a partner. Whether you’re a man or a woman, Bryan's words will resonate deeply. ------- what readers have to say ------- "Reading your work contributed so, so much to my healing process. My heart is deeply relieved by what you have to say." ~ Deborah T "You put into words so much of my experience that seems ineffable. You succeed in speaking to the shared humanity in everyone." ~ Jason H "I was going to send you a nasty email, but I no longer need to do that. In fact, I now feel compelled to send you an email to say I appreciate you and your work deeply." ~ André Z "Your words continue to inspire me every day. Your wisdom has helped me to experience some of the happiest days of my life, and some of the most love-filled. I am a better human for it!" ~ Joanne W "Everything you say about relationships make 100% sense and opened my eyes to a deeper, more detailed view of myself and my partner. Your words always pop-up like an omen in my life, exactly when I need them." ~ Anja S. "When I read 'Choose Her Every Day' I closed my computer and wept - that was written by me, for me, and all about me. You'll never know how grateful I am. You not only bring insight that few others have, you bring hope." ~ Tyson K "I know this is crazy, but you've touched my soul. Where have you been all this time?! Whoa! Just wow. You've got it figured out." ~ Jenny C Review: This book will hug you! I was so moved! - I was so enthralled by this book that I read it in 3 sittings. I would have read it faster but I had to go to work and make dinner and sleep. I truly believe this book could help everyone be a more relatable and compassionate human. We can all benefit from these words, whether you are single, coupled, self aware or struggling. Bryan’s book took me on a journey of deep healing and love. It was like he hugged my inner child with words of support. I felt validated, heard and understood and now have a better outlook of how others need to feel this too. This isn’t the standard self help, relationship book. Bryan really gets to the core of masculine and feminine energy and how this plays out in the lives of all of us. I really connected with the theme of wanting a loving connection, while also yearning for freedom. He walks us through living our best lives with vulnerability and breaks down our confusions through an honest, direct, down to earth and gentle journey. As much as this book discusses love, it is not at all sappy. He makes this topic so approachable and accessible that no matter where you are on your path this book can help you to understand how to move forward right now in a way that makes sense to you while still being present for the people you love. This is one reason why the book is great no matter what your gender or life experience is. He offers uplifting nuggets of wisdom coupled with deeply grounded statements of the reality of life, which makes this book both easy and compelling to read. Reading this brought up a lot of emotions for me, but also soothed me through these moments at the same time! This is the magic of Bryan’s writing. I felt so comforted while reading this and didn’t want it to end. I am truly moved and I am grateful to have read it. Review: Wow - I think we might be in the process of saving an 8 year partnership using this book. It’s not the only resource of course, but wow. As a woman, I felt so seen by much of it so far, and a little uncomfy by others (but in a way I need to face). I was afraid my partner would hate it, but he gave it a chance and after reading 8 or 9 chapters he is excited to continue reading and discuss. All that to say this book managed to get through to both of us in ways that others could not. Even if our relationship doesn’t work for whatever reason, I’m going to make sure we both have access to a copy because I feel it’s important. If I had one wish it would be to find the female twin to this author so I could read her work too. Thank you!! Its not what I was expecting but I feel like this is the most important book I’ve purchased in years and I’m grateful
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| Customer Reviews | 4.5 out of 5 stars 426 Reviews |
S**P
This book will hug you! I was so moved!
I was so enthralled by this book that I read it in 3 sittings. I would have read it faster but I had to go to work and make dinner and sleep. I truly believe this book could help everyone be a more relatable and compassionate human. We can all benefit from these words, whether you are single, coupled, self aware or struggling. Bryan’s book took me on a journey of deep healing and love. It was like he hugged my inner child with words of support. I felt validated, heard and understood and now have a better outlook of how others need to feel this too. This isn’t the standard self help, relationship book. Bryan really gets to the core of masculine and feminine energy and how this plays out in the lives of all of us. I really connected with the theme of wanting a loving connection, while also yearning for freedom. He walks us through living our best lives with vulnerability and breaks down our confusions through an honest, direct, down to earth and gentle journey. As much as this book discusses love, it is not at all sappy. He makes this topic so approachable and accessible that no matter where you are on your path this book can help you to understand how to move forward right now in a way that makes sense to you while still being present for the people you love. This is one reason why the book is great no matter what your gender or life experience is. He offers uplifting nuggets of wisdom coupled with deeply grounded statements of the reality of life, which makes this book both easy and compelling to read. Reading this brought up a lot of emotions for me, but also soothed me through these moments at the same time! This is the magic of Bryan’s writing. I felt so comforted while reading this and didn’t want it to end. I am truly moved and I am grateful to have read it.
A**N
Wow
I think we might be in the process of saving an 8 year partnership using this book. It’s not the only resource of course, but wow. As a woman, I felt so seen by much of it so far, and a little uncomfy by others (but in a way I need to face). I was afraid my partner would hate it, but he gave it a chance and after reading 8 or 9 chapters he is excited to continue reading and discuss. All that to say this book managed to get through to both of us in ways that others could not. Even if our relationship doesn’t work for whatever reason, I’m going to make sure we both have access to a copy because I feel it’s important. If I had one wish it would be to find the female twin to this author so I could read her work too. Thank you!! Its not what I was expecting but I feel like this is the most important book I’ve purchased in years and I’m grateful
J**E
Life changing
I have read a lot of relationship books and I've done two marriage courses which all had really good information and helpful things. This book actually got to the cause of what my wife has been pleading with me about all the time This book goes into why partners have issues in the first place on a fundamental level. I would suggest this book for everybody. The sections are easy to consume and when I got to the halfway point in the book I couldn't put it down. I love my wife but I have struggled to understand why I'm not more romantic, why i couldn't enthusiastically give her the affection i wanted to give her. Why was i holding back? This book helped me understand and have a major breakthrough! Our relationship is going to take a lot of work but now I'm ready! Understanding is what I needed and this book finally gave me that!
T**K
Great insight that was relatable and easy to read for a 37 y/o man.
My man loveddddd this book. The author made him feel connected and explains things in easy to understand “man lingo”. The only reason I took off one star is because the entire first chapter was missing out of the book when he received it. He liked it so much that he wants me to purchase again so that he can read the first chapter.
J**Y
Yaaaasss
This book was purchased for an ex. Now he is my man. He learned alot about being intentional. He even read parts to me. I love the book and the man I got from him reading this book.
J**Z
Trading in my expectations for appreciation 🙏🏽
My Man Bryan! This book is the foundation I used to getting past my need to be seen, my inability to show up when my woman needs me. Not believing the illusion that she wants to fight but believing that she only desires connection and safety but at that moment she does not have the capacity to share her thoughts/feelings in a different way. I focus on the Choose her everyday part because I do not want to leave her. This book would be the guidance needed to step up into your manhood and heal the little boy that is yearning to be heard. You truly want to be heard…first be open to listen and hear her heart not the smoke signals that are coming out of her 🙏🏽 truly appreciating the opportunity you have for true connect, that we all desire ❤️
D**E
Insightful but empty
Definitely give it a meh. While it is insightful, it doesn't really solve anything. In the end my wife and I were both searching to fill a hole in our souls. The only thing that filled that hole was God, the Bible, and church.
R**H
Every Man Should Read This Book
Best book I’ve read, to understand the feminine energy, and how to deal with it. It’s a book that I will refer back to over and over again. I have found the information accurate and so valuable in navigating my own relationship. It’s been a game changer.
A**R
Amazing book!!!
I love this book so much! I got so much out of it, it has help me understand men better. I truly wish that every men would be open to read this book it’s fill with wisdom, compassion, humility and everything that a men need to know to create beautiful relationship with women! And has a women it gave me more understanding of the masculine so I can feel more connect to my partner. I’ve been following Bryan for years and his work is a light in this world. Beautifully written!
J**M
I love this book !!
It's a must read for every man and woman :)
M**O
Male wisdom
Full of wisdom from the male perspective
N**R
Highly recommend!
Highly recommend! Very easy to read and has so many a-ha moments.
S**T
Sensationell für alle
Super Buch Authentisch mit reifer Sichtweise. Voller Wertschätzung und Abseits von Macho und Feministinnen Klischees. Begegnung mit Ehrlichkeit und Liebe. Zeigt wundervolle Wege raus aus der Sex-Konsumsucht hin zu echter Energie.
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