The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

At first I had my doubts about Andrew Ferebee since there are 1000's of other coaches and books on this very same topic and so much contradictory information on the web on this topic for us men making it a tough decision on who to invest in. I decided to give the book and chance and I thought it was exceptional and beautifully written. I have read 10 other books in this same genre and I liked Andrews book the best out of them even more so then how to be a 3% man. He is an excellent and fluent writer and explains concepts in a comprehensible and easy to understand way while also relating them to his own life and what he had struggles with in the beginning of his journey. He provides you with step by step guides on what to say and a how to when approaching women but also makes brilliant points about what to do when you do get into the relationship while at the same time giving practical advise on internal mindset, overall success and happiness in life and overcoming our fears and negative self talk. A lot of books on this topic are very philosophical, filled with fluff and explain the end result rather then explaining the how to step by step. The book is a page turner and one that you will want to finish reading in under week. I found its teachings to spot on and I agreed with 90% of all of his talking points. I have read some of the other reviews and I feel like there are some haters on here that arent giving the book the credit it deserves perhaps taking out some of their own frustrations for not taking the action needed to get more successful in this area. I am super busy and I never take the time to write reviews for any products but I decided to for this book because I really loved it and I think you will too.

I always was a grounded guy, and I had no clue until this book and audiobook. I know it is not about me but her that makes me stand out the most. I have beautiful ladies flocking to me, and I am 56 a 56-year-old divorcee. Her man must meet or exceed his woman's needs. The top two are love and security. Get in the morning; he only needs to focus on her emotional needs and get to work; it is a full-time job. This book opened me to being that grounded man and focusing on her. I had an excellent idea but needed to be more vocal about it. The woman loves to hear, and soon, she will falling love with you, even if she plans to sleep with you once. Being grounded will make her change her mind, and I promise she will return. Why? You nailed the to-be-loved emotional need. Now it is time to figure out the rest if you want to keep that beautiful lady.

David Deida meets RSD principles in Ferebee's seminal piece. I found the most value in the latter two thirds of the book which covers the practicalities from approach/talking to women, to logistics/texting, to the bedroom, to being in a relationship. The book is very ambitious and tries to cover almost the entire gamut of dating issues including mindsets, values, philosophies etc. and as a consequence not every area gets as much depth and attention as some readers may like. On the other hand, the book manages to cover a lot of ground given its size, and goes far to demystify dating as a whole. As his first book, I feel that Andrew's 'writer's voice' is still maturing; bookwriting is an art form that requires some experience to get some of the nuances mastered – and these are different from blogging. This doesn't however, detract from his message which comes across as authentic and to the point. I think this is where his real strength is; finding the motivational crux of key life issues, such as 'if you don't pursue your dreams and ambitions, the time will pass anyway, or that our fears, insecurities and things we let hold us back, pale in the face of death' – he doesn't directly say these things in the book, but they're themes I've heard him talk about before in his videos, and I admire the way he delivers them with conviction and congruence. The 'writer's voice' isn't really an issue during the practical elements of the books, and perhaps I'm being overly pedantic, as I can see from other reviews that many have been inspired by the writing. When it comes to the big idea stuff of the book however, such as what it means to be a 'Grounded Man', I feel that if Andrew can convey such ideas in future writing/wordsmanship with the conviction and congruence he conveys in his videos, he'll move from competence to mastery as a writer.

I really enjoyed the thoughtfulness of this book. It was pieced together in a way that sets the reader up for the best results... not the fastest, or the easiest... but the best! Written by dinnertime that you always feel is speaking from their own trials and tribulations. Thank you Andrew for sharing all of this, I am excited to start my first sprint, and learn what I can to better myself and help those around me do the same! I had thought that I was a weak, lost, loser before I picked up this book, but it turned out that alot of the things I was already doing were things that Andrew writes about in this book. Things that are what he calls a "grounded man" which is the ideal man. It was great validation for me that I am doing the right things and his advice and way of looking at things has helped me, already, recognize things I need to work on more to REALLY become the grounded man I know I'm capable of being! I highly recommend reading this book (and then reading it again) if you're a man that feels hopeless about meeting women, succeeding in life, and creating your own success!

There’s some good information in this book, particularly the section on having the right mindset, but I found myself skimming through large sections when I lost confidence in the message. At times, the author is too prescriptive and specific, relying heavily on personal anecdotal evidence rather than credible data. I’m still searching for a book that offers practical dating advice for men in a way that inspires confidence and self-assurance.

I would increase examples. Nothing else more. Recommended for not only single men, or those who are looking for datings.

Don't underestimate the book based on the title only. It is a guide to changing at core. Be like a swan and extract the right information you need and trust me it will be the best guide you will have.

I’ve just reached chapter four, and I’m completely dumbfounded by the wealth of knowledge packed into this book. It’s not just about dating women—it’s about embracing positive masculinity and becoming the best version of yourself, which is exactly what any young man could aspire to. While some concepts and ideas are familiar, the author’s unique and positive perspective makes them feel genuinely motivating. If you’re reading this, Andrew, I want to express my deepest gratitude for writing this incredible book. You’re truly a hero.

This book is GOLD!!! Ideal for anyone no matter what stage of a relationship you are in. Andrew has effectively laid out the stages of a relationship from inception to marriage and onward in a section he calls "Mastery" to help you not only secure the right relationship for you, but make sure you maintain them in a healthy fashion. His easy to approach writing style; complete with examples and memorable quotes make this a book you won't be able to put down on your path to becoming a 'grounded man' . Give it a try, it's well worth your time!

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