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# How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of the Male Intimate Abuser

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desertcart.com: How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of the Male Intimate Abuser: 9781855942202: Hennessy, Don: Books

Review: Thorough Book! - I liked how thorough this book was. It really gets you thinking and opens your mind. Valuable information and well written.
Review: This book is by far the best book that I ever read on the topic of ... - This book is by far the best book that I ever read on the topic of domestic violence. I have learned to have more compassion on myself after reading this book. I discovered the tactics of brainwashing used by my abuser. I have learned that his abuse was intentional and evil. The motive is to have power and control over me. I have learned why he targeted me: I had no boundaries, I put others needs before my own and I was in a vulnerable place when we met. He was my night in shining armor who came to my rescue. After we married and I became pregnant, the abuse began. He told me that I could not think for myself and he was the only one who could think for me. I learned to speak his language and doubt my own thoughts. If I dared say the word abuse, he would rage that I was abusing him! I learned how he got into my head and how I lost touch with reality. I learned his tactics of targeting, setting up and grooming that are very similar to what pedophiles use on their victims. I cannot say enough praises for this book!

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #20,449 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #9 in Domestic Partner Abuse (Books) #34 in Family Conflict Resolution |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars (270) |
| Dimensions  | 5.25 x 1 x 7.75 inches |
| ISBN-10  | 1855942208 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1855942202 |
| Item Weight  | 2.31 pounds |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 274 pages |
| Publication date  | January 1, 2012 |
| Publisher  | Attic Press Ltd. |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thorough Book!
*by G***E on November 13, 2025*

I liked how thorough this book was. It really gets you thinking and opens your mind. Valuable information and well written.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This book is by far the best book that I ever read on the topic of ...
*by M***N on July 7, 2018*

This book is by far the best book that I ever read on the topic of domestic violence. I have learned to have more compassion on myself after reading this book. I discovered the tactics of brainwashing used by my abuser. I have learned that his abuse was intentional and evil. The motive is to have power and control over me. I have learned why he targeted me: I had no boundaries, I put others needs before my own and I was in a vulnerable place when we met. He was my night in shining armor who came to my rescue. After we married and I became pregnant, the abuse began. He told me that I could not think for myself and he was the only one who could think for me. I learned to speak his language and doubt my own thoughts. If I dared say the word abuse, he would rage that I was abusing him! I learned how he got into my head and how I lost touch with reality. I learned his tactics of targeting, setting up and grooming that are very similar to what pedophiles use on their victims. I cannot say enough praises for this book!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Most recommended book on my list
*by C***G on November 26, 2022*

Many good books exist on the topic, few are really good books to help the victims, THIS one will make the tactics of the abuser perfectly clear! When I fist read this book I found myself journaling and gaining many new insights and discoveries. It empowered me to understand more of what was happening and also safe guard against those well meaning people who can’t help but fall into the abuser’s trap because yes, the abusers can be that charming… especially to others. Parts felt so familiar it was as if the author was watching what had happened in my life. I understood the dynamics better than I could through reading any other book. For example, understanding how the victimizer chose his target. Years of research have gone into this author’s writing and I recommend this book over any other. It does seem abusers work from a manual and this book makes sense of their harmful damaging behavior. If you are looking for help to understand what keeps you trapped, I recommend reading this book. If you know someone suffering, I recommend reading this book. It will help people gain insights on how and why the abuser’s tactics are so insidious.

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