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# Mind The Gap: The truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life

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Review: Buy it!! - Brilliant book. This work brings together many aspects of human sexuality and the social contexts in an interesting and thoughtful way. I recommend this very strongly.
Review: A must have for tired parents! - As a mum of three, my life is chaos, coffee-fuelled, and punctuated by constant interruptions. Mind The Gap gets straight to the point - practical, clear, and surprisingly doable advice on keeping desire alive even when your bedtime is the highlight of the day. Insightful, relatable, and refreshingly realistic. A lifesaver for exhausted parents who still want connection.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | 9,979 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) 4 in Psychology & Sexual Behaviour 6 in Sex Guides 148 in Scientific Psychology & Psychiatry |
| Customer reviews | 4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (510) |
| Dimensions  | 15.56 x 2.54 x 23.5 cm |
| ISBN-10  | 1472267133 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1472267139 |
| Item weight  | 1.05 kg |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 336 pages |
| Publication date  | 5 Mar. 2020 |
| Publisher  | Headline Home |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Buy it!!
*by S***E on 6 January 2026*

Brilliant book. This work brings together many aspects of human sexuality and the social contexts in an interesting and thoughtful way. I recommend this very strongly.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A must have for tired parents!
*by H***K on 23 November 2025*

As a mum of three, my life is chaos, coffee-fuelled, and punctuated by constant interruptions. Mind The Gap gets straight to the point - practical, clear, and surprisingly doable advice on keeping desire alive even when your bedtime is the highlight of the day. Insightful, relatable, and refreshingly realistic. A lifesaver for exhausted parents who still want connection.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Enlightening and interesting exploration of sex and relationships aimed at empowering women
*by W***L on 8 April 2020*

I liked this book! As someone who has been mystified by some of the rituals surrounding sex, especially with some of the women I have had intimate relationships this helped me get a grasp of some of the misconceptions that "society and the media" have use believe and what is reality for many of us. I do like the focus on empowering women, especially to be more assertive in some situations. Things I liked: 1) Discussion of sexual currency 2) Exploration of sex and not just being "traditional" PIV sex 3) Reviewing and understanding the conditions for sex and how this is complex and different for everyone 4) The example scenarios 5) The sum up questions at the end of the chapters I will read these points again :) I'm going to make a few points and you can take them or leave them as you wish. 1) The author mentions the orgasm gap, i.e. that men have more orgasms than women and this is important, but also states that frequency of sex is not important. Also I would like to point out that many women have the capability to have more intense and multiple orgasms that men will never experience. This presents another "orgasm gap" in society. I just wanted to get this perspective across. 2) From what I understand sometimes women do not want to achieve orgasm or perhaps state they have experienced it, because it gives their partner a perceived ego boost. I'm sure this is not just limited to male partners. This to me presents another dynamic and I would liked to have seen vulnerabilities and insecurities regarding this issue discussed.

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