Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm: A Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving Ultimate Sexual Ecstasy Paperback – October 4, 2006

Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm: A Step-by-Step Guide to Giving a Woman Ultimate Sexual EcstasyIs an updated version of below, so I just scanned it, my review doesn't change, however, I recommend buying the updated version and not both.. I do like the new section on toys though.Understanding the G-Spot and Female Sexuality: A Simple 10-Step Guide for Unleashing the Ultimate in Female EcstasyThis is the second time I've read this book. I read an online version of it around three years ago and purchased a hard copy shortly thereafter to set on my bookshelf as a book to read. For some reason I was loathing reading it, such as the scam books that pervade topics of sexuality such as The Master's Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Perform Successful Oral Sex and Provide the Highest Degree of Pleasure PossibleThis book is a short read, tad more than 100 pages and many of the pages have much blank space, so you aren't stuck on page 10 saying OMG I'm never going to finish this.The book is broken down into 10 chapters with several subheadings each, I'd say the chapters that gave me the `aha!' moments were Chapters 1,2,3 & 6.Chapter one `Learning the Basics' covers some fascinating historical stuff about how a concentration of study and research here has come to where it is today, a good 30 years in the making it seems. Mr. Hicks covers some biology of existence, what proportions of the population in recent surveys have access/practice to this sort of information. Most importantly, the elements of Intimacy, Comfort, and Trust are paramount. The G-Spot Orgasm is not a `place to get to,' or something to `make' happen. It is a physiological and psychological state. It is anything but an Expectation. Rumors, alternative and actual meanings are specifically defined in `The Phenomenon of Female Ejaculation.'Chapter two `The Technique' is very distinct. I appreciated the Step 1 to Step 4 distinctions the most. What one man may classify as just foreplay, I believe many women would agree with his 4 distinct phases of foreplay from Priming to Teasing. Note all of this foreplay is above breast level! He then goes into the distinct signals in her you are looking for, and how you drag this teasing lower and `keep her out of her own way!' Intimacy, Comfort, and Trust are critical, and just because the two of you are without clothing doesn't mean these three elements are present.He goes into some great depth into the location, stimulating and handling extreme experiences of ecstasy from your partner. The practitioner with a distinct focus on reassurance, sharing, self control and an internalized focus on the energy, sharing, and altruistic pleasures between you and your exasperated partner.Mr. Hicks wraps it up with some trouble shooting and many vignettes are well placed to share the experiences of others. He deals with Anxiety, possible Urge to Urinate, and the emotional aspect of what this experience can either hinder or offer. He tops it off with resources for following up.The overall tone of the book is not demeaning, objectifying, nor vexing. It is a short enjoyable read, one important thing that I have left out is to be committed to the process, letting her know what you are `trying' to do crashes the trust and her comfort level may be I'm not sure if I want to go there with you, or to be so curious as to try and `make' it happen both of which are counterproductive to the sacred experience of being alive.As mentioned earlier I had read the book, and was in an intimate, comfortable, and trustworthy relationship to allow this to happen. Three things I fumbled. First was I let her know up front what I `wanted' (read Expected) to try (read Insecure). Secondly, my anatomy was not in the right place, I forgotten where to find the `valley,' the pressure was not as if writing on a foggy window with nickel size circles. Thirdly my focus was not on her it was if I was a scientist trying to figure out how this `thing' worked (read sterile vs. intimate). So my three errors probably Jaded my view of the book, after reading it again, I'll go 5 stars rating it just below She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.I believe with a few unsuccessful attempts after my first reading. Now after the second reading and in future intimate, comfortable, and trustworthy relationships; I am the go to guy for Unleashing the Ultimate in Female Ecstasy.

For years, there has been debate over whether the G-spot exists, and if it does, where it is located. I think the debate is over...the G-spot is real, but the problem is too few men know how to find it and use it properly. This book is a good, fundamental guide to locating the spot and using techniques that will bring your partner to the climax of a life time.I found it ironic, as I read the book, that I had been using the basic technique already described in the book, without knowing it was the G-spot, and had my partner to near ecstasy, but always fell short. It's all in the timing, or continuing even after your arm goes numb...something I now know.The only downside I found to the book was the step by step directions. That may work for some, but for others a more narrative style might be helpful. If you order the book, remember that it is a how to manual, much like a car repair book.I highly recommend this book to anyone wishing to bring a new level to their lovemaking. In addition, it ought to be required of all young males and females as they are starting their sex lives..

Where is the G-spot? Can every woman have a G-spot orgasm? In what ways is it different from the typical orgasm? Is it true that women can ejaculate more than men? How should I discuss the subject with my partner?If these are your questions, than Don Hicks? book Understanding the G-Spot and Female Sexuality: A 10-Step Guide for Unleashing the Ultimate in Female Ecstasy is where you can find the answers. This well researched book provides a comprehensive look at female sexuality, while unlocking the mysteries of the elusive G-spot. While he emphasizes that everyone is unique in their likes and dislikes, he presents a thorough 10-step process that serves as a great foundation.A devoted researcher of human sexuality and intra-couple relationships, and author of 3 novels, numerous newspaper and magazine articles, Hicks puts his knowledge to great use. In Understanding the G-spot, he demonstrates a pleasant communication style that presents delicate subject matter with great tact and ease.In addition to well-documented medical research findings, readers of Understanding the G-spot will find several case histories taken from respondents to Hicks? surveys. Reading about their experiences, G-spot ?old-hands? will smile fondly as they relate to the familiar praises and exclamations of the couples quoted, while g-spot ?newbies? will be inspired to find out what they?ve been missing!Sex expert Sue Johanson of the popular Oxygen Channel program ?Talk Sex With Sue? just proclaimed Understanding the G-spot to be one of top books in her library. It?s a must read for every couple wanting to explore the full potential of female sexual pleasure.Darcy A. Cole...

Honestly a good book. Did its job on educating

This book is the real deal.I read and memorized this book.When I followed it with my girlfriend, it was a complete road map to what to look for before proceeding to the next road post. In our case, each of the things to watch for, and the things to do and avoid doing worked.This book was life changing for my girlfriend. She has compared the orgasms from the g-spot to taking drugs and she was very happy and spaced out for several days afterwards.I recommend this book highly. Hell, I wish they taught it to kids the first year in college.

I have read all kinds of information on the g-spot. This book was the only book that ever really in plain and simple language explained how it works and how to do it. The one illustration in the book is the only one you need, but if you are not interested in reading the information the book will be useless. I am not a fast reader at all but was able to finish this book in a day in a half. Wonderful book with excellent results. A+++++