She Comes First: A Guide for Sassy Women Who Want to Get Back in Control of Their Life

Last week I was sitting in an airport coffee shop reading a book on my kindle when an older woman walked by carrying a coffee and a purse, looking for a place to sit.Since all of the tables were occupied and she was looking a bit displaced, I offered her a seat at my table. Relieved, she sat down and expressed her gratitude. I promptly went back to my reading but I could feel her eyes boring into me as I anticipated the dreaded question."What are you reading?" she finally blurted.Now I know this is neither a profound nor earth-shattering inquiry but there were two problems at hand here.One, I'm terrible at summarizing books. Just awful. (Which you're about to discover.)And two, I was reading a book about female empowerment. Which ironically, I was ashamed to admit. Clearly, I had just started reading the book.But then I thought of something Brian said in this book, and I went for it.Allowing myself to be open and even vulnerable led Martha, the lady in front of me, and I into a conversation for the next hour.This is a simple book, in that it is easy to understand (thanks Brian!) and yet it has profoundly changed my life by finally lifting the fog and opening my eyes.We're living in a culture of `never enough'. I'm certainly feeling it. Are you? I never work hard enough, I don't help others enough, I'm not successful enough, I don't eat healthy enough... and on and on.That, for me, had to change. And fast.Brian Nox, the author, talks a lot about how making a major change in your life isn't something you wake up and do one day, it's something you practice every single day. And most will struggle with it, but without the struggle, we lose out on so much. But there’s more, the changes I thought I had to make weren’t the ones that were important...at all! It was time to reclaim my power and go for what was really important to me, personally, so I could let go of all the rest.I will have far fewer regrets on my deathbed having read this book. If you read these Brian, THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart.Everyone should read this book. Everyone who wants to stand alone, but still belong. Everyone who already is alone, and wants to be a part of something again. Everyone who is tired of a humanity that is separated. Give it a shot.Buy It Right. This. Minute. Sit your butt down for an hour, and start reading. It will be a good investment.

I LOVED IT! I got the Audible Edition and the Kindle App with Whispersync version. I love listening & reading along. What's great about this book is well EVERYTHING. I am a very transparent person but at times very emotional. But regardless of what people think of my Vulnerability, I stood my ground on being me. He talks about the High Value Woman & as I listened, I suddenly came to the realization that I AM ONE. I am by no means perfect & he has helped me to understand the things, I need to work on. I know its not my body, the way I eat, the way I am but other things that I am certain will help me to nurture all of my relationships. I have been failing at putting myself first but no more of that. I will be able to spot other High Value Women & I will know we are like minded. I gave this book as a gift to a High Value Woman who doesn't realize how amazing she is and how she deserves to be treated. I know this book will open her eyes. I follow Brian on YouTube & loved everything he has to say. Even though I am married, I have also read and listen to his other books. He is an absolutely exceptional man and I applaud him for the insight he provides to women. Keep them coming Brian. You're awesome and I am forever in your debt.

Great book. Read it! You’ll feel in control again. This book will help you get the most out of the many relationships you have (not just with men). And if you’re open minded you’ll see what a tremendous role you get to play in all of this. We’re so much more in control of our lives and the experiences we have than we often believe to be. Life doesn’t just happen, we get to choose how other people treat us, how we feel, what we do for a living and how we can be in control.If I’m honest then I have to admit that I’ve been attracting and accepting bad behavior from men, have accepted less than good behavior at work and continuously put others in front of me while forgetting about what mattered to me, personally. Even though this has given me feelings of frustration in the past, I now see that there is another way.You’ll love the step by step strategies that you can follow. I’ve only just finished the book, but have been applying some of them in the last couple of days and to my surprise, I do get to decide how I feel, how I deal with certain emotions and how other people treat me.Awesome! ;-)You’ll love this book!

I have read some other books around this topic but this book I devoured. It was so simple and easy to,read and understand. He give you real examples to compare. He puts things in perspective. There were some things I've heard before and some new things as well. The thing about the things I've read before is he tells you how to get there, gives you questions to ask. I had so many aha moments while reading this book. I now have a plan to implement these things and I am excited about them.I am getting ready to read the book again and pick up anything I may have missed. Please get the book and read it buy one for a friend. Now matter where you are in a relationship; looking for one or not, this will apply to you.

This book is amazing I'm entering the dating scene again and need to brush up on some things it's been a longgggg time!!!And i'm sure the rules are different now so it's always a good thing to brush up on your skillz! Never walk on any playing field without being fully Equipped to play the game! that's how you get injured (Smile) Hope my review was helpful in you making the decision to purchase the book. I'm just another satisfied customer, Have a great day!

Brian gives teaching about one of the most powerful psychological traps to avoid, tactics used by bad men, especially male & female narcissists, which will erode your SANITY! Explains why many women stay. Awareness helps you prepare for what you need to do. Get Out! Power of having a Mission Statement - who do I want to be? Lady overweight, binge comfort eating. Brian’s insight: real obstacle her starving soul. What gives/drains your energy? Brian helps you identify those soul needs so you can address them & TAP INTO YOUR POWER. Helps you create a 30 day programme. States men are NOT to be trusted until they prove otherwise. High-value women makes man pay a price for her attention & love. Expects them to invest in the relationship & put in the work & effort. Doesnt give herself for free. This is an eyeopener for NICE girls. When all the man needs to do is show up & you give your attention & love for free you become disrespected & a doormat. Brian gives examples & good advice. I find this book immensely helpful. Highly recommended

This book came to me at a very special time. The day I bought the book I was questioning about how could I endure such abuse and discrimination at work for so long? The next morning I came to work finding myself in another struggling fight with my boss and he fired me out of the blue. Have I not waited so long, I would not have to face the shame and humiliation. I decided that I would not let him get away with that and fought for a settlement. I also managed to get some my staff a salary raise to make their lives a bit easier when I could be there and protect them anymore. The next day my phone was flooded with messages telling me how other employees were treated the same way, everyone wished me well and some even sent me presents. I'm still going through a hard time figuring what's next, but as a lesson mentioned in the book, I rewrite my personal mission - that I'm a woman that has principles and will do everything I could to protect my dignity. Thank God for sending me this book at the right time and Thanks to Brian for writing it. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

I loved this book it is a must read. Really interesting I couldn't put it down I'm going to read it again Thank you

I loved this book from the first to the last word! Brian you are an amazing writer and Your book boosted me so much. It’s so easy to read, and straight to the point. I felt understood and empowered.I already bought 2 additional copies that I distributed to my friends.I recommend it to everyone !!

I would recommend this book to any woman or man for that matter, if you need to feel abit more positive and gain your personality back maybe? It's a winner