I'm Married. Now, What? Paperback – January 1, 2013

I bought this book because I love the Lindsey family. I follow them on instagram and I have all of Heather's books. This was the first time I bought one of Cornelius' books, and I have to say I am disappointed.Postives:I love and appreciate his honesty about the struggles he went through being a newlywed & throughout his childhood. He and Heather are very transparent in their books, which is awesome. He did have some good points and food for thought throughout the book, and he made sure to put a ton of biblical references.Negatives:I really struggled to get through this book. The positives that I listed above kept me going until the end, but overall I felt Cornelius jumped from topic to topic and I wasn't sure when a subject was coming and going. This book was also filled with a ton of his "opinions" which come off very cynical and negative at times. Honestly, at some points I felt like he was being a serious know-it-all. Like he's "figured it all out" and he's trying to tell us we better do it his way. While I was reading I kept thinking, "I'm so glad you guys worked that out, but dude, you've only been married 4 years (maybe less than that when the book was written). There was a lot of "this thing is happening in YOUR marriage because YOU are doing this" when that may not be the case in everyone's situation. And the typos were crazy- although if he edited this book himself I can see how a person can miss a few things.Overall, I don't want to shoot down his book because it was very honest and he did have some good foundational advice, but as a young newlywed woman I was kind of offended at times with some of his borderline sexist & whimsical opinions that he considers truth (and I'm not talking about submission, because I believe in that). Maybe his book will resonate more with men. I'll stick to reading Heather's books for now.

Cornelius writes in a style that makes you feel like you're at coffee with a good friend who is simply sharing his expreiences, and how God moved and taught him throughout his life. His accounts were encouraging and gave me hope that my marriage will continue to blossom into the amazing thing God made it to be- even though it's hard sometimes to seethrough whatever mess you may have in your relationship (married or courting). Can't wait for the next book!

I have read all their books. His other book as well as the one his wife wrote. I can say I really love this one by far. I enjoyed the others too, but this one was a really deep, honest, in depth look on the good and bad of marriage and their story. Great read with a great Godly perspective

This is simply a good book for any couple on their way too marriage this will help you do a self-assessment before you enter into a marriage. Really good book!!!

If you are looking to grow and become more selfless in your marriage, this is the book for you. The book is not some fly-by-night advice, it is scripture based guidelines to having a marriage that glorifies God.

This book is FULL of jewels! It's biblically rooted and an easy read. Read it in 3 days. Thank you, Cornelius. God bless you and your ministry.

I read this book in less than 24 hours. It's a thought provoking read and it'll challenge you in all aspects of life.

This is a great book for anyone that has been married for a while , the author has great wisdom.

It was very interesting, a personal look into marriage. I'll recommend to anyone really single or married. I enjoyed it, it kept me engaged